It is day 4 of my launch and this is my first post since then. My apologies for taking so long. It’s been a crazy 3 days – crazy is a good kind of way! I am a media consultant and I know what can happen when you put information out there – they type of responses one can expect. But never in my wildest imaginations (and my imaginations can be pretty wild), did I expect this type of encouragement and connection. I’ve read your emails, your blog comments and the discussion board (I really am trying to do something about those inappropriate postings from those small few who spoil it for us). Because of what you said, what you say, I feel enveloped by support.


I go through much of my life thinking I’m the only one who feels the way that I do or that my ideas are so off target. But then you came along—all 25,000 of you (but who’s counting). And it has all changed. I have been fortunate to put the topic of singleness and the pursuit of marriage in a very public arena. I take that charge very seriously. But I do want you to know that if I never marry, I will be fine. It is not the ultimate goal in life. My life is good and full and I am blessed. My goal is to love and be loved and that love comes in many forms.



Don’t worry, this is not a concession speech – not even close. I just want you to know that I am attaining balance and perspective on this journey. Until my desire to be loved by a husband goes away, I will continue along this path of love (as well as my path to love and be loved as a sister, aunt, friend, and member of humanity, etc). And I hope and pray that you don’t give up on love. If it is something that you desire, connect with me and other singles around you (even your married friends). And as you have done for me, look to those who will encourage and support your dream. And try to do something new and different, if what you’ve done in the past isn’t working. Always be mindful of safety – that’s where friend and family accountability come in handy. I know you’re weary, but you still have some hope left. I can tell by your emails. So revive that hope. Not just for yourself, but for me too. I really do need you. We need each other
(as sappy as that sounds :-).