Jan 16 - Do I "Date & Tell?"
I have a bit of a conundrum! I love how much I get to share this journey with people who come to the website. I also love the feedback everyone offers, your advice and insight. And with these dates, I want to be able to share what I'm experiencing; after all, this is a blog. But how do I share without telling too much? I don't mean the private details, but simply the idea of loving a date, or not finding chemistry with another person. If I have the best date ever, and I think the guy is amazing and hope he asks me out again, how can I share this with you, without scaring the guy away? I'm sure no guy wants to read about a girl blushing over him (especially if he's not that into me). And the opposite could also happen, he may be a nice guy, or not so nice - and I won't ever be critical of guys, that's not what the website is about, but I don't want to share how I didn't feel chemistry, when that's not something I shared with the guy yet. So I've made the public my matchmaker, but how do I share how I'm feeling, how things are going, without betraying the guys or giving them information they shouldn't necessarily know? Looking forward to hearing your comments!