On Thursday I had a brief meeting with New York Matchmaker, Janis Spindel. She has quite the track record so it was a privilege to be able to have a little of her time.

You know how sometimes people say things that just ring true? Well Janis gave me her "what's in the minds of men" rundown. There were things she said I agreed with and things I didn't necessarily describe the majority of men. But one thing that stood out for me was that men are attracted to confidence. I look back on all the situations that I've been in and I'm not as confident (flirty) with guys as I should be. I have loads of confidence when it comes to work situations and men, but that's totally different.

Maybe this week my challenge will be to act extremely confident whenever I'm in a situation with men, whether I'm interested in them or not.