I’m hoping and praying Charlie (not his real name) doesn’t follow my blogs, because spoiler ahead -- I was pleasantly surprised and how much I’ve enjoyed the date. He was a guy that contacted me through one of the other dating websites. I was interested, but his profile didn’t tell me much about him. But there was something sexy about him that I couldn’t put my finger on. We only spoke briefly a couple of times on the phone and exchanged a couple of text. He seemed a little distant and preoccupied, so it didn’t exactly build the excitement, but I agreed to the date anyway. But that initial nudge paid off. We had fun, easy, relaxed conversation. That sexiness that caught my attention was a confident, take charge kind of personality without being arrogant. Since he may be reading, I won’t go into details about the date, only to say, I’m hoping for a 2nd one. On the day that one date cancelled for later in the week, it was nice that this date ended positively (BTW, despite the rain, my hair turned out fine!)