After 20-something first dates this year alone, I've had my share of good experiences and, of course, a few bad. Usually chemistry just runs its course and there's not a whole lot I or my date can do to change that. But there are a few things a guy can do that I think are pretty amazing. There are also things that really annoy me. Considering my dates are not mind readers, I feel a twinge of guilt when they do something where I'm probably the only woman bothered by it. But the rest on my "I hate" list are the general rule of thumbs and we should all know better. I had fun coming up with my top 5 love / hate for a first date. So, what's on your list?