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The mind [Visitor] — Fri, 22 Jan 2010 05:10:47 +0000

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elizabeth [Visitor] — Wed, 06 Jan 2010 18:30:48 +0000

I love that you are able to "tell the truth" in terms of what you said about yourself and about the type of person you are seeking. Unfortunately, as an older woman - older than you - I find it increasingly difficult to "tell the truth" particularly about age. I am not looking for an OLD MAN....I happen to like men a little younger than me. (I am - as Wendy Williams says - a woman of a certain age!). I find that when I put my real age on a profile - I get men in their 60's+. So...I tell a "small" falsehood about my age. I usually shave off about 5 years. But...it seems - that if you aren't in your 30's...nothing!! I am going to try that honesty thing again and see where it lead me.

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Andrea de Michaelis [Visitor] — Wed, 06 Jan 2010 14:20:45 +0000

OMGosh thsi was excellent. It kinda reminded me of somethign I read online once: Realistic Personal Ad: SWM in dead-end job seeks dumpy neurotic for mutual psychological torture, tepid sex, and co-dependency.I enjoy drinking, smoking, pornography, and self-righteous indignation. I can't stand movies, and the last album I bought was The Marshall Tucker Band's Greatest Hits. I have middling intelligence but try to appear smarter by affecting a world-weary air, memorizing useless facts, and chuckling at my own mean-spirited, agenda-driven jokes. I'm 32 but look 40 and feel 60.

You are a whiny, bitter shrew with a misplaced sense of entitlement and unrealistic expectations. In time you will become coolly hostile when I don't fulfill every unmet need you've ever had. Bonus points if you just finished doing every guy in town and but now want to take it slow with me. My perfect night would include getting hammered in a seedy bar while you flirt with old drunks, followed by an embarrassing screaming match.

I would be open to an unsatisfying fling that leaves me filled with regret and dread but prefer a long-term, soul crushing descent into booze and pills. No friendships. I don't need any friends. Age unimportant, but I will condescend to women under 30 and rehash mother issues with women over 40.Serious replies only, please.

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Fatima [Visitor] — Sat, 19 Dec 2009 11:21:10 +0000

so true....so true. I have had almost the exact same experience and have tried my hand at giving a coy presentation of myself online and it's tough!!!! I think that this experience is the valley in preparation for the mountain top. I'm glad you were willing to spend a year exhausting yourself to find a husband. Now, more than last year at this time, you will be open to the Grace of God embodied in the Gift of a husband perfect for you. Mourn the loss of control, celebrate the opportunity to surrender....know that we're on this journey together!!!!

--Happily awaiting the news that you've given up this website, and removed yourself from dating ---only to have GOD place the man you've been longing for all along right in your path ---with love,

Fatima

In response to: December 13 - To Tell the Truth (Dating Ad Realities)

Lynne [Visitor] — Mon, 14 Dec 2009 03:09:13 +0000

Neenah, Time and time again, I admire your ability to speak the truth yet keep a sense of humor about it! You make me laugh - esp as I just finished reading some of the crazy profiles (and emails received) on POF! UGH! If nothing else, you've learned to make the best of the past 12 months and learn a lot along the way. I thank you for sharing the journey with us!!