52 Weeks 2 Find Him Blog

Hi my name is Cecilia, Im a christian Im from Dominican Republic. I was seeing this movie and I found the message amazing for couples who are not placing God in their first place or in the center of the relation and for couple that doenst want to wait in the Lord untill they get married. The only thing I critized is the exposure of nudeness with the woman that He cheated on His wife. Showing her body even thou you are trying to get a real message could be a temptation to pleople who are weak in His flesh,so what I suggest in the Love of God to cut the parts where there is nudeness. I really want to share this movie in the church but I know that it could be hard to some people, who has tempation with their eyes...God bless u...

Your letter was so inspiring to me! I have wondered and prayed about the man God has waiting for me. I pray for him all the time! Thank you for sharing your hearts desires with me! God Bless, Bianca

Nina I love you! You inspired me at the beginning of 2009 to find my soulmate by the end of 2010. It happened for me!! The weird part is that I was paying subscriptions to 3 dating websites but my soulmate found me at church. We started dating in November and we got engaged February 14th, 2010. Your journey help me stay motivated when I felt like giving up. I laughed with you and I guess got discouraged with you along the way. Thank you for sharing your story with the world. It's because of you that I was able to continue to hold my head up and realize that even without a man in my life I am still a Queen. Love you and keep us all posted throughout 2010. God bless you!

It says in the Bible "ask and you shall receive" and that is the way the world works. The Bible is a book that was written many years ago for the people of that time. We must recognise that God will update his message in many ways.

I think that it is an honest way for people to meet someone they can have a loving relationship with. There is a need to find common ground where people can meet and know they are looking for a deep relationship.
Great Idea!!!

haha.. I found your post amusing. It's one of the reason's I guess why we need wisdom and revelation when we read scripture. Thankfully, we know by experience that God loves and is concerned with women as much as he is men.
You should wait for the guy to find you rather than you look for him.. girl power and all that.. lol

Thanks a mill for that post. Do you get your content written or do your own writing? Thanks for sharing. What a great article. thanks !! very helpful post! Nice writing bub. Thanks a mill. Keep up the good work.

Wow, thanks for the insightful post. I look forward to reading more from you.
My cousing was looking for this last night. Glad I found your article :- )

Hi, my name is Kwam?. I'm 34 yrs old. I'm African American,

I've watched you from beginning to end. I'm kind of in the same state as you-early 40's, but divorced with one child. For me, dating was/is always hard come-easy go just like pass boyfriends. Now I have given up and I don't mind. I went through the lonely stages, the embarrassed-to-be-alone stages, the "society" single-lady stigma, etc. and it all will probably continue on and off, but through it all I rather be with someone who wants me just as much as I want him. It can't/won't happen unless it is that way. May we both find him or he find us one day. Keep hope alive! Blessings.

Hi Neenah,
I was excited to see your blog because I was going to do a similar thing recording my dating experiences looking for a husband but got feed up and too distracted by about the 10 post! LOL~! You should be proud of yourself for sticking to your program faithfully for the full 12 months and in that aspect you were a SUCCESS!!! :) I am 38 yrs old single, never been married, no kids and I always wanted to be married with a family and NEVER imagined that I would be in this position and how hard it seems to be to find "Him". But like you, I still have hope and I am still believing that God will bless me (and you) with the desires of our hearts. Please add me to your emails, I would like to keep in touch with you for moral support and please let me know if/when you develop the network for woman our age looking for marriage. Thanks, again! And God Bless Us!
Bree

It took a lot of courage to do what you've done. That alone is worth celebrating. As for love, taking a break in 2010 is probably the final piece of the puzzle to bring your soulmate to you. Best of luck.

Neenah, I admire you and commend you. Today was the first time I became aware of your journey so I have not been following from the inception, how ever reading about it today I went as far back as I could go and again my hat off to you.

I am on a journey as well to find him. This Journey began in January 2009 and at the end of December 2009 I turned 42 and still have not succeeded in finding him, and it?s funny in my case because I know who he is but reaching him to let his know who I am has been my challenge since he is somewhat of a celebrity and we live in different states, different worlds. Like you I sometimes ask myself how much effort should put or should I not put into this. I received any email during last year which gave me a lot of courage it said (If really want something, you may have to do something you have never done) and that is so true.

Your actions have inspired me today, it lets me know that I am not alone on my journey and I will keep on believing in God?s promise for me. And I would say the same to you, keep up your fight, keep your courage (it has touch many of us out there) and most of all keep on believing in God?s promise for you his child.

let me know if you want to know how to find LOVE...

Nina,
Two of my favorite quotes from two wise women, "Every pot has a lid". And "When you find Love, it will happen fast!" I met my husband when I was 40 y/o, we were engaged in 3 months and married on our 9 month anniversary. We met in a time when we were both looking for a partner to enhance our lives, not to make our life! Timing is everything! Stay healthy,happy and at peace!

This may sound religeous, but it is a true story that happened to me, 15year ago, I was fed up with dating and all that comes with it, I was thinking about it one day and remember a passage of the Bible that said "in all thy ways acknowledge HIM and HE will direct your Path" and that Day I prayed and asked God for a good girl to marry, and few months after that we were in a superstore, me and my room mate and as we always do, we were admiring a group of three women ,not knowing that they were all married accept one of them, so the other two told the single one that I was looking at her, that made her to corner us and met us directly in one of the isles and came to me and introduced her self and we exchanged numbers.
I like her as a Person, but everything she told me about herself made me believed that she was not the one,
like: she just got out of the military, she was visiting Houston, Tx from Colorado and She was loud mouth.
Me, as an ignorant African born Immigrant, just about one year old here she was definately not what I want. She was not from my culture, she will court mashall me everyday, she will not respect me and
she lives miles and miles away, it will never work so I thought.
But she turned out be the best wife anybody can ask for, after all these years I still love her just as if it was yesterday. happily married for 12years and have been together for almost 15yrs.
** Therefore I will ask you to try Prayer.
I am very sure that God will send you the desire of your heart, because only HIM, knows who HE made just for you.
He may never look like what you pictured in your mind, but if God made him for you he will fit just right.
Vincent.
Rosharon,TX

I love that you are able to "tell the truth" in terms of what you said about yourself and about the type of person you are seeking. Unfortunately, as an older woman - older than you - I find it increasingly difficult to "tell the truth" particularly about age. I am not looking for an OLD MAN....I happen to like men a little younger than me. (I am - as Wendy Williams says - a woman of a certain age!). I find that when I put my real age on a profile - I get men in their 60's+. So...I tell a "small" falsehood about my age. I usually shave off about 5 years. But...it seems - that if you aren't in your 30's...nothing!! I am going to try that honesty thing again and see where it lead me.

Hi fellow single! I just found your blog - what a fun experiment if nothing else. Thanks for sharing. My online dating experience resulted in a few lies that turned me off - why pay to have someone lie to you. The first was a charmer and boy did we click - online. Trouble is it never went to the real thing. Seems he was content to have some online fantasy without actually meeting. Because of his charm, wit and style of communication I was easily swept away from reason and it took me a while to realize I was being taken for a ride. He was probably even married is my guess! Anyway, I like the idea of meeting online but I wish I could know the sincere from the insincere. I have a date coming up with someone I knew in elementary school who found me on Classmates (we're collecting names for an upcoming reunion). At least I know he's a real person, even if it turns out he's not "the one."

Good luck on your journey.

This is an interesting blog and I will bookmark it to read it again in the future! I hope that you find the right guy at some point in the future. :)

You have a very beautiful smile. I want you to meet my brother.